We all are aware of the change of this year, it is coming to an end, which opens a New year for many to celebrate. We all are engaged one way or another, sending each other the best wishes and love for a new year to come. For those living on their own, it may be challenging times these past few weeks. Thinking about the ones we had to see our goodbyes too. Or those who are no longer part of our lives anymore. Some moved to another city or a different country. Others just remain in their own place, while you moved away. Movement is something connected with this changing of our calendar year in the western world. We don’t all have the same dates to celebrate or give thanks for the year that has passed. It is universal energy where we take measurements of that what has passed.
Each Soul knows what to choose for the highest good Each soul knows what to choose for the highest lesson or experience to take up in a lifetime. To think otherwise or take it for granted will create another gap between people in their perspective of being awakened or spiritual awareness.
You cannot shield from the storm to gain inner standing Should you shield the canyons from the windstorms, you would never see the true beauty of their carvings. Elisabeth Kubbler-Ross Step-free from judging and denying your experience. Call upon your Higher Self to carry you through intense feelings that accompany profound growth. Turn your transformation over to Spirit.
This morning started with some significant messages from the other side of the veil. As a reminder and confirmation about the deep connection and understanding, there is through the deep love we experienced together. Sometimes it comes through with pictures and text to bring it to my attention. Other times it is a message that is presented through a dear and close friend. The connection that is bringing through the love as well the words, written in capitals to make sure it is signed by my beloved.
When this came up as a theme to write about, I had 2 options to choose from. You have a bounce in your tread or how to bounce back when something happens. To bounce back is the first to be addressed because I truly believe the result will be to have that bounce in your step again. We all go through different challenges in our lifetime. They might be different; they might be difficult. Still, I do believe that what is going on is also holding the key to healing. In order to find out what the root issue is, it requires a lot of hard work, sweat and tears for sure.
When we meet people, we are attracted to them, or not. it’s not just about gender or race, age or sexual attraction. There is this like an inner compass, that shows you, who is in your comfort zone and who isn’t. It is interesting to watch for your own to whom you respond positive or negative from the first you get.
There may be two people who have been dealt the same cards in life. Two individuals with all the same life circumstances. One is miserable, stressed out, and looks twenty years older than he is. The other is the happiest guy you could ever meet and looks twenty years younger than he is. How can this be? The answer is that it is not our life circumstances that make life difficult rather it is the attitude that we view our lives with. Those who are capable of seeing the humor in life and take life lightly will be able to do the best with the circumstances they have been given. We don’t all have the same sense of humor, as I discovered from an early age. The kind of humor that is at the cost of others always escaped me. Never could I understand why watching videos of others who fall and hurting themselves along the way could be perceived as humor. There is this way of laughing at the expense of someone, making fun of in a group. Humor is something very personal as well part of a group dynamic. To me the best way is to be able to laugh at myself, not taking myself to serious. This enables me to deal with situations and challenges in a more heart lightened way as well. Making jokes about serious events in order to create different more lightening energy. During all the turmoil life presents at times, it has helped me to remain my inner balance as well.
The moment I decided to write about dignity, thoughts were following themselves up about the meaning it has for me. It has to do with being honorable, respect and worthiness in my opinion. It also has to do with the way we perceive each other. Behaving with dignity, sometimes is challenging when we are feeling hurt or not understood. When people are tending to disrespect you, making you feel degraded, not worthy. It also has to do with the way we perceive ourselves. Self-worth is a quality, which makes it easier to respond with more calmness and respect. When people are treating you without respect for your efforts, or the work you do, how to respond to that. Is it possible to act with disrespecting yourself, and then when confronted with a situation, come out the other end with dignity? We sometimes can lose respect for someone we love and hold dear, caused by the way they act. When a loved one is facing addiction, for instance, acting out under the influence of alcohol or drugs. Judgment plays a big part in the way we look at ourselves as well as others. When we do something and feel ashamed about it afterward, we also face losing self-respect. Not being worthy to be loved or disrespected for the way we handle a situation like betraying a loved one. How to handle this with dignity?
And it is not just about food to keep you healthy in mind and body. Food will definitely help, and unless you clear your Heart and Soul from negative inputs, you are not going to be a whole, renewed, rebalanced human angel. The impact old emotional wounds have on our human body is far greater then we like to think of, most of the times. If there are undetected issues lingering around deeply buried sometimes subconsciously or unconsciously, they will be triggered at times and will have their influence on your body as well. It can manifest itself even by scars, depending on what kind of injury is manifesting itself outward by your soul's experience.
This topic is linked with betrayal if you take a look at all those synonym explanations. It has been played out I think, as old as humanity is after the split when the duality became the norm in our world. Like cheating, breach of trust, the wounds that are inflicted are deeply felt and hurtful. It has many consequences for all parties concerned no doubt. So what is causing this kind of treachery, the deceit of the ones you love and have your trust. Is it lack of self-worth, self-love and self-respect that makes someone decide to start a web of lies. Root cause of all of the double-dealing is apparently fear of being loved, yet not able to love oneself deeply.